How to spot a sociopath
(Extracted from an article by Robert
Matthews in the Sunday Telegraph Review, May 4th 1997)
While such personality disorders as psychopathy, paranoia and
obsession/compulsion all have strictly defined criteria, psychiatrists are still
struggling to decide precisely what constitutes a socialised psychopath.
One of the more obvious characteristics of socialised psychopaths
is that they give the impression of talking "at" you. Prof Jeremy Coid describes
it as like being regarded as a cardboard cut-out. "Even in a sexual
relationship with them, you are still just an object for their personal
gratification," he says.
The following questionnaire is based on research and experiences
of socialised psychopaths. For each trait, decide if it applies to the
person you suspect may be a socialised psychopath, fully (2 points),
partially (1 point) or not at all (0 points).
- Do they have problems sustaining stable relationships, personally and in
- Do they frequently manipulate others to achieve selfish goals, with no
consideration of the effects on those manipulated?
- Are they cavalier about the truth, and capable of telling lies to your
- Do they have an air of self-importance, regardless of their true standing
- Have they no apparent sense of remorse, shame or guilt?
- Is their charm superficial, and capable of being switched on to suit
- Are they easily bored and demand constant stimulation?
- Are their displays of human emotion unconvincing?
- Do they enjoy taking risks, and acting on reckless impulse?
- Are they quick to blame others for their mistakes?
- As teenagers, did they resent authority, play truant and/or steal?
- Do they have no qualms about sponging off others?
- Are they quick to lose their temper?
- Are they sexually promiscuous?
- Do they have a belligerent, bullying manner?
- Are they unrealistic about their long-term aims?
- Do they lack any ability to empathise with others?
- Would you regard them as essentially irresponsible?
A score of 25 or above suggests strong psychopathic tendencies.
This does not mean the person is a potential mass-murderer: socialised psychopaths
are not mad, nor do they have to resort to violence. Even so, a close professional
or emotional relationship with a socialised psychopath is likely to prove a damaging